This tutorial discusses several approaches to referencing a Flash movie from within an html document. Nice artcle with examples @

http://www.permadi.com/tutorial/flashGetObject/

The External API allows an ActionScript developer to easily interact with the container program that is hosting Flash Player 8 and vice versa.

read more @ http://www.codeproject.com/cs/media/flashexternalapi.asp

Intregrating flash with .NET winforms.  Nice Tutorial @

http://www.devx.com/dotnet/Article/21033/0/page/1

Download Source : http://assets.devx.com/sourcecode/10048.zip 

A nice tutorial at Kirupa.com on XML and Flash.Good link for beginners

@ http://www.kirupa.com/developer/mx2004/xml_flash_photogallery.htm

Need Sound Tracks and Loops for your flash intro

visit http://extras.show-kit.com/sound_tracks.php